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Alexavier Jay Pedrin

June 17, 2023 | 11 comments

Our precious, innocent, little boy, Alexavier Jay Pedrin, also known as Alex, Aj, and Hammy, age 6, tragically died on February 11, 2023, at his father’s girlfriends’ home in Onalaska.  His death was the result of blunt force trauma in addition to high levels of Xanax in his system. As a victim of child abuse, Alexavier faced many challenges, and demonstrated incredible courage, strength, and resiliency.

Alexavier was born on July 10, 2016, to Jenah Love of Holmen and Derek Pedrin of Onalaska. He attended kindergarten and the beginning of first grade at Hintgen Elementary School in La Crosse.

Alexavier was a fun, loving, active, and outgoing, young boy full of zest. He loved to dance, sing, swim, ride his bike, play basketball, and watch his “Buddy” race. He considered himself fast like “Lightening McQueen” and a good friend like “Woody”. Alexavier was a “mommy’s boy” and treasured there time together; he especially loved it when she read him books. He would say, “You got a friend in me mom.” He looked up to his older “sissy”, Aubrey and loved singing and dancing with her. Alexavier looked out for his little sister, Azaelia. He made sure she was included, safe and comfortable. He held her hand while walking; covered her up with a blanket; and helped her sit and stand. Alexavier and his maternal family were strongly bonded, and he loved spending time with them. He was always so happy to see them and would run up, smiling ear to ear, spread his arms wide open, and give the most endearing bear hug. Our hearts ache for his loss, as he was so dearly loved. His memories will be cherished, and he will be forever missed.

Alexavier is survived by his mother, Jenah Love; sister Aubrey Pedrin; half-sister Azaelia Love; step-brother Frenadus Jr Love.

Grandparents: Cheryl Anderson; Scott Anderson; Mike (Patty) Droog

Aunt: Jackie (Seth) Scholl

Uncles: Jeremiah (Jamie) Anderson; Justin “Buddy” (Annie) Anderson

Several close cousins: Addison (Vance) Radcliffe; Breanna Holzer; Raven Holzer (Renezme); Isaiah Holzer; Alayna Scholl; Lauren Cozy; Kiarra Arentz (Skarlyte and Octavious); Kilynn Anderson; Jaxtyn Anderson; Linkyn Anderson; Kyla Wolfe; Evyn Severtson.

He is also survived by his father, Derek Pedrin; half-brother Brantley Pedrin; and a half-sister Ariyah Pedrin.

Grandparents: Brenda McCormick; Christopher (Kim) Baker

Aunt: Brittany (Clint) Hoops

Uncles: Adrian (Samantha) Pedrin; Casey Pedrin; Cameron (Palladin) Brunell

Cousins: Joshua Hoops; Raelynn Hoops, Ruby Hoops; Jameson Hoops; Roman Pedrin; Melodi Pedrin;

Preceded in death by Braedyn Pedrin; Great Grandparents, William and Leona Waller; Vern and Beverly Droog; Marshall and Linda Wilhelm; Great Uncle Andy Tylka, Dan Droog, David Droog, and Susan Wilhelm; Uncle Andy Butterfield; Second cousins Billy Waller and Colten Hughes.

Please join his Celebration of Life on July 9th, 2023 from 12 to 4 at the Holmen Area Community Center. Located at 600 N. Holmen Dr, Holmen, WI.

The Child Welfare System is plagued by a lack of accountability and transparency and demonstrates a disturbing pattern of failures. His death was senseless and preventable. It is our mission to get JUSTICE FOR ALEXAVIER and to seek reform.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to JUSTICE FOR ALEXAVIER. We appreciate your support.

Cash app: $JUSTICEforALEXAVIER

Go fund me: gofund.me/6ee1bebf

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11 Comments

  1. Cindy Mantzke

    So sorry for your lost. What a little boy to go through all he did.

  2. Beth Herber

    My sympathy to his family. May the Lord comfort you all. I’m glad he knew love of his true family.
    I am so sorry for the suffering he had to face.
    He is held in our Fathers arms where he will only know love and peace.
    Hold tight to the smiles and love he shared with you.

  3. Chrystal

    I’m so sorry for the loss of this beautiful child.
    Prayers and heartfelt thoughts go out to family.

    • melody a huffman

      Sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you guys through these trying times.

  4. Natasha Semenova

    Please accept our condolences from all of us at ILC, LLC. What a tragedy! It is heartbreaking. Alexavier was a sweet boy and left you way too soon. May time bring you some peace and May bring you comfort knowing that you will meet again someday. In lieu of
    flowers, donation will be made by ILC for the cause. Rest in peace sweet angel, Alex!

  5. Jane (Halverson) Kruger

    This beautiful little boy should never have had to suffer at all. Only an evil person could have done this. He had his loving Grandma Cheryl advocating for him, no one listened. The person who abused him repeatedly, eventually causing his death should be locked up for life! Anyone who knew what was
    happening to poor A.J. & did not speak up for him should also be held accountable!

    My heart goes out to A.J.’s family who looked out for his well being, who showed him the love he deserved, & made him feel safe.
    My deepest condolences to Cheryl, Jenah, his siblings, & all who loved him.

    • Shannon and Heather

      Rest in heaven there is no excuse for child abuse and a happy looking little guy like you by far deserved this ? happy that you no longer are suffering , but saddened for family and friends . Strength , love , and prayers to all his family .

  6. Kami

    I’m so incredibly sorry for the tragic and absolutely senseless loss of this beautiful boy! I hope justice will prevail and all who loved him find peace and comfort!

  7. Laura

    This is absolutely heartbreaking. Please except my sincerest condolences and prayers.

  8. Teri

    This is such a sad and horrible story. I could hardly get through reading it with my eye’s flowing tears. My deepest sympathy for all. I pray to God he gives you strength and comfort at this difficult time. God please heal their broken hearts and I pray RIP soon will change to Resurrection In Progress.
    Mathew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

  9. Dori

    My deepest condolences to the loving family and friends who are processing this senseless loss of this beautiful little boy. My heart breaks to read this and also the acknowledgements which are pouring out with hurt and love.
    May you find peace, comfort and begin to smile again, as you keep the memories of pure joy and happiness of Alexavier.

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