Obituary
Derek Dean Nelson
Derek Dean Nelson, 50, of La Crosse, Wisconsin, passed away on April 16, 2026. Born on December 25, 1975, in Black River Falls, Wisconsin, Derek’s life was a tapestry woven with creativity and warmth.
He was the beloved son of Rebecca McNulty and the late Dennis Nelson. Derek is lovingly remembered by his siblings: Jeremy (Christine) McNulty, Keely Chrest, and Sara (Ben) Sykora. He was a proud uncle to Jacob, Molly, Alex, Roman, and Maggie.
He was preceded in death by his sister Jana Nelson as well as his paternal and maternal grandparents.
Derek’s artistic spirit shone brightly through his love for music and art. His creativity found countless forms of expression that touched those around him. A gifted cook with a passion for sharing meals, he brought people together with his culinary talents. His home radiated love and companionship, shared with his loyal dog, Dapper, and his cherished cat, Paris. Those who had the privilege of knowing Derek will forever remember his kind heart and infectious sense of humor. His lighthearted goofiness could brighten any room, while his enduring optimism left an indelible mark on all who crossed his path.
A visitation to celebrate Derek’s life will be held on Sunday, May 3, 2026, from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM at The Gathering Place, 133 Mason Street, in Onalaska.
May the memory of Derek Dean Nelson bring solace to all who loved him and knew the joy he brought to the world.
You will be greatly missed and I’ve gotta fine another vacation buddy .
Until we see each other again RIP My cousin/brother you’ll have a special place in my heart forever.
Becky, words cannot describe how sorry for you and your family going through this. Will see you on May3rd. Love you,
Jayne Kirschner Olson
Many great memories. I will miss you!
Becky I am so very sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine your pain.
Derek’s Fam,
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart truly goes out to your family during this incredibly painful time.
Derek and I were very close and spent a lot of time together. He was a steady and important part of my daily life, and in many ways he felt more like family to me. I will always be grateful for the time I had with him.
We shared so many everyday moments—talking, listening to music, watching shows, and laughing together—and those are memories I will always carry with me.
I’m also very grateful I was included in some of your family holidays over the years. Those moments meant a lot to me.
I know each of you had your own relationship with Derek, and I am truly sorry for your loss. He was clearly very loved.
With love and sympathy,
Kate
I’m so sorry for your loss I remember Derek he was such a nice guy thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Derek was my very best friend and I will always miss him. Love ya always!
Sending my heartfelt sympathy!!!