Obituary
James “Slappy” Kaehler
On Thursday, December 26th, the big band in the sky gained a new member. James Paul “Slappy” Kaehler passed away peacefully at the age of 64. Jim was born on November 13th, 1955 to Dorothy and Jerome Kaehler. He grew up and attended school in Winona, Minnesota, where he was crowned prom king at Cotter High School. In his youth his brothers remembered him being an avid gearhead with a love of motorcycles that never faded. Jim went on to work at Everbrite for many years, creating neon signs.
But what really drove his passion in life was music. Jim was a proud musician in the area for over 40 years. If you attended a concert in the Coulee Region in the late 1970’s through the 1990’s, odds are you enjoyed his talents. Along with being an incredibly gifted singer, he was one of the best bassists around. He was known for slapping his bass strings (which gave him his nickname), and never opening his eyes when he sang. His talents were highlighted in such bands as The Jimbo Zill Band, Lowrider, Tabasco Cat, The BoZill’s, Still Kickin’, Time and a Half, and many others.
In his later years, Jim’s focus shifted to his family. He loved a good road trip (especially to Wisconsin Dells), and enjoyed spending time with his three daughters and five grandchildren. He was the best person to go to when going through a hard time, and his compassion spread to many other areas of his life. Jim was also always ready with a witty remark at a speed only matched by his children (who learned from the best).
Jim is survived by his mother, Dorothy; three daughters; Sarah, Adrienne, and Hannah; four brothers and five sisters; five grandchildren; and a host of loving friends, fans, and extended family.
A service for Jim will be held on Friday, January 10th from 1pm to 2pm at The Gathering Place at 113 Mason Street in Onalaska. There will be a private celebration of life held shortly after the ceremony. His family and friends are planning a larger celebration jam that will take place in late spring or early summer that will be announced at a later date.
His family would like to thank everyone for their love, support, and patience during this difficult time.
Jim, we will miss your quick wit, your gentle heart and your talents behind the mike. You take part of us with you, but leave so much more here, in our memories. We know you’ve already fired up an amp, and the silverware is rattling on the table up there. We love you.
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Sarah.
So sorry to hear about Jim. I grew up with Jim around our house lots. He was always quiet and kind. Sending prayers to all of you for your loss.
The loss of a loved one is never easy, but the loss of a parent is one of the most difficult and painful experiences. My heart goes out to Sarah, Adrienne and Hannah. My condolences are offered to all of Slappy’s family.
So sorry for your loss. Keeping you in thought and prayer.
My deepest sympathies to Jim’s family. We all grew up pretty close and spread out as we became older. I went to Cotter High with Jim. My soul aches by his loss.
Love and prayers to you all,
Aunt Kathy
So very sorry for your loss. Sympathies to all.
During this time our wonderful memories, and love from family and friends will help comfort. We are sending that comfort and love to you all.
I will miss you little brother always remember you beautiful blue eyes. Rest peacefully, Love your big sis, Cindy